Advice column / Answer

I understand the feeling that you and your wife knew that your son has disability, and the hard work for raising the child.

You work so hard every day. So my heart aches that you're troubled whether to hide it from your grandparents.

Though you're worrying about breaking your relationship, even if it's a disappointing response, the real problem must be whether you have a confidence that you take it or not.

Honestly I don't know if your grandparents will understand your son.

The best time to tell is not by them, it's the time when you can feel that you can take any response, I think.

For the mean time, please keep this in your mind. Every person will be born to be needed by someone in this world. You don't need to think that the existence of the child gives a disappointment to someone.

A lot of people are helping you and your family. They empathize with you bring up your child earnestly, and hope to help even a little, I guess.

Please don't forget that you have a lot of friends who support you and your family.